I miss him/her!

Missing someone

Missing someone gets easier everyday because, even though it is one day further from the last time you saw each other it is one day closer to the next time you will.

Have you ever been away from your loved ones? Being away from the people you love is one of the most difficult things in life, be it your parents, your siblings, friends or your spouse… Although missing someone is painful, it also brings a sense of warmth and love, when you realize you have something worth missing.

Even though we all know it is tough to be apart from the people we love, we often find solace in the fact that some one else is going through the exact same thing… If you are missing someone real hard right now, just give him or her a call or send an email to convey your feelings. After all not everyone is lucky enough to have such precious people in their lives. Keep smiling and stay positive no matter how tough things seem right now.

To know when ur Missing Someone...

Have you ever missed someone and felt terrible because you think that he/she doesn't miss you? Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, sweet feeling.

You will be sitting around wondering if you meant anything to him/her. Thinking if he/she ever cares about you. Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her. Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise you by appearing downstairs. Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him, missing the final episode of your favourite show. Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u were out together. Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, plans, future. Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online. When you realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page, you will start worrying if he/she is okay.

Missing someone is a way of growing up I guess. It exposes you to loneliness. It teaches you how to cope with being lonely and let you know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness. Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. You know that you really care and you indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her. But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible. You feel as if you are being left alone. So if you miss someone, tell him/her and let them know. At the same time, ask if they miss you. If you are the one being missed and you know it, let the other party know. If you miss him/her too, tell them!


(this article is for my another Board mate named Princess Kim, because she missed someone.)